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Ann Richardson's avatar

Thanks so much, Vicki, for the shout-out – I am delighted to be seen as 'juicy' (my husband, with whom I have countless laughs, loved that one), not to mention 'alive, playful, mischievous, and adventurous'. Not that people would see any of that when they meet me, as I lead a more stable life than most (61 years married to same man, nearly 50 years in the same house etc etc) and I am not a flamboyant sort, but my mind and sense of fun are both still very alert.

I really never thought I was doing anything special. As someone wrote in a comment on my Substack on much the same issue, "I don't know how to be anything else." But clearly people find it surprising that at 82 I am standing on my head (which is literally true – just have a look on my site – but also figuratively true in that I have a sense of fun). So I have been thinking a lot on this issue from the other side. I do think that it is partly a matter of personality that stays much of the same over the years, partly a matter of circumstances (no serious health issues) and partly a matter – you said it, but I think it too – use it or lose it.

Whatever it is, just KEEP USING IT

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Lindsey Kontovich's avatar

I loved this reflection. It seems like you are working hard to generate new ways of thinking and living and being. You are a wonderful example of someone who is not letting the years of growing older slow you down or stop curiosity around new things. I too can get comfortable in a routine but I recognize how important it can be to switch it up and push myself a bit in order to stay juicy 🤣

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